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Let’s discuss makeup for a second.
Why do you wear it?
What does it give you, that your own, perfectly flawed skin cannot?
How does your mood vary from wearing makeup, to not wearing makeup?
How do feel when you’re going au naturale?
Who are you wearing makeup for?
All of these thoughts ran through my head today as I walked out of the gas station. I held the door open for two gentlemen who thanked me, told me I was “awesome” and “extremely hot”. This was different than other compliments because a. I was not wearing makeup at the moment, and b. I had not brushed my hair yet. I was feeling pretty frumpy at the time, and it made me feel all warm and fuzzy. The fact that two men, saw me in that moment, as attractive. It was a wonderful feeling, I must say.
However, I don’t know if I would have got that same reaction if I was wearing makeup, or if I hadn’t held the door open for them. Holding the door for someone implies, to me, subconscious friendliness. It’s is a gesture of sweetness, and genuine behavior. When the door is held for me, I immediately smile at the person. I think of them as a kind, well-mannered person. I don’t even know this person, how can I make that assumption?
Because it IS kind.
On the not wearing makeup portion of this discussion:
What does our makeup tell others? To me, the amount of daily product used tells me how insecure that person may be, and/or how high-maintenance. If someone contours their face, applies false lashes, and have perfected eyebrows, I assume that person is going to be self-absorbed and is “putting on a front”. I also assume that person is either really beautiful physically, or their skin is in bad condition.
On the contrary, when I see a woman with a bare face, I see a woman baring her heart and soul. I see a woman who is comfortable in her own skin, and confident in herself. I see someone who has probably been through enough rough times, little or small, and came out strong. I see someone strong willed, independent, and it’s terrifying. Many people see it as laziness, I see it as daring and unique.
In conclusion: I believe maybe these men saw me as less threatening, and more self-assured due to the fact I was bare in my own skin. And perhaps the smiling face holding the door open for them didn’t hurt either. Regardless, it made me feel wonderful! So many people hear “you look tired” or “are you sick” when they go without makeup. Why? Shouldn’t we be building those brave souls up? The next time you see someone who is raw and undone, smile. Tell them they look beautiful, because THEY ARE.
With that being said, think about what YOU see in both scenarios. Do you feel the same? Do you feel different?
Share your thoughts below!
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Hello eveyone!
First and foremost, welcome to my page!
This is where I will be displaying some of my recent (and older) work. This is for your convenience, as well as my own. I wish to display my work because I absolutely loving my career! I also want to give YOU a place to check out my work and style! Keep your eyes open, I have some exciting photos to share with you all coming soon! These photos are from a recent shoot I did here in Colorado. The scenary was amazing, the props were amazing, the makeup and hair was amazing. Most importantly, the group I was priviledged to work with is….you guessed it, AMAZING! I am so excited to embark on this new journey and pumped to share it with all of your beautiful faces!
Until then, love always!
-Jess
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